PROTOCOL & ETIQUETTE

What is BDSM protocol?

Protocol in this field indicates a series of rules, rituals, and behavioral expectations that enforce the dynamic between a Dominant and their submissive for professional and lifestyle trysts. Examples include when to eat, how to walk with, and how one refers to their Dominant.

Read on to learn more about what My expectations are of any submissive who wishes to serve Me.

  • All new clients are required to provide ID verification. My vetting process is quick, discrete, and non-negotiable. Please provide the following:

    Option 1: Verify with government-issued ID. Please send two photos: 1) clear photo of your government-issued ID or driver’s license to My secure, encrypted email; 2) a photo of you holding your ID next to your face. Your name and age must be visible. You may censor the DL or passport number and address for your privacy.

    Option 2: Verify via LinkedIn page or company-verified employment page.

    Option 3: Verify via Zoom for an additional $25 fee as part of your 15-minute consultation call, which is required for all new clients. Your total would then be $75. This visual verification online takes about a minute to do. The fee is paid in full upfront before scheduling and is separate from your total tribute. You will be expected to have your camera on to verify and mine will be off.

    Your cooperation is appreciated.

  • I require 25% of your total tribute to finalize your appointment. I accept electronic payments or cash.

    Please note that your book is not considered confirmed until I receive your deposit.

    • You will call Me by the honorifics Domina or Maîtresse—not Mistress, Goddess, or any other honorific you may use with another Domina. This will look like, “Yes, Domina” or “Yes, Maîtresse.” In public, you will call Me Mya. Use of the incorrect honorific will result in punishment.

    • You will respond to anything I ask of you by saying, “Yes/No, Domina” or “Yes/No Maîtresse.” Do not respond casually with “Yeah” or “okay.”

    • You will be respectful, obedient and eager to serve at all times.

    • You will arrive on-time—not late, not early, but exactly at your appointed time. If you are early, you must wait. There is a 5 minute grace period. Any minute later is an additional $100 charge, no exceptions. Respect My time as I respect yours.

  • Along with everything listed under Submissive Expectations:

    • You are expected to come to session freshly bathed and with fresh breath. I should not smell coffee or food on your breath. I highly expect you to have your ass washed before session, especially if there is any play in that area. If not, I will make you clean yourself and it will count as part of your session.

    • I expect you to arrive on time—not early or late.

    • You will provide the balance of your tribute in large bills in an envelope. If it is inaccurate, I will stop the session.

    • When our time is up, you must quickly gather your things and leave promptly. This is not the time to chit chat.

    • Session extensions are available at an extra charge, depending on availabiity.

    • You may respectfully inquire about purchasing pantyhose or underwear during session if you feel so inclined.